Is women's position too high in China?

Is women's position too high in China?
I find so many tragedies was caused by women instead of men.
They are usually the first to claim divorce with men.They
are playing a vital role in the family.They interfere
with men's affairs.Men's position is menial and sometimes
they act as women's slaves.Women change frequently and
unprodictably.I think men cherish emotion more than women.
When men go abroad,they will take their espouse abroad,
when women go abroad,they will dump their husbands 100
per cent.I think if men will happier,this situation
should be changed.

I agree with you,but while we are blaming women for their cruelness,we may take a look at the women at the countryside where exist women beaten and starved by their husbands.I am feeling the same with you that boyfriends or husbands have to do a millions times more to please their female lovers,it is caused not only by the increasing social status of women but also by increasing intellegence of women who receive same or higher education and get same or higher salary.
Never mind,my friend,should your one is too bossy and demanding,maybe she loves you and want you to show your love.Some women,when together with their men,act sometimes just like a child.If you really and truly love her,you could forgive her and do the best you can to make her happy and free of regret to choose you as the one for a whole life.
Should she disregard you and make stupid decisions like give you up or divorce,just let her go,she is not the one for you,we men can win any women's love with your sincery and charm,and the women abandoned you,I believe,will surely regret her most stupid and hasty decision she has ever made in her whole life.
Anyway,career should be the no.1 task and importance for man,without which we lose our right and power to win any love.
Good Luck in your Love!You will find someone turly love you and be your side whatever happens without a bit of regret.
Take care!