英语翻译不得不说离婚已经成为被众多家庭所面临的困难.离婚很简单,但是离婚后的种种事情却不是那么简单.离婚后很多人都会为了

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不得不说离婚已经成为被众多家庭所面临的困难.离婚很简单,但是离婚后的种种事情却不是那么简单.离婚后很多人都会为了财产而不停的打官司,直到得到自己想要的为止.对于那些有孩子的家庭,孩子会受到很深的伤害,孩子幼小地心灵禁不起离开父母任何一方的打击,没有了任何一方,他们的成长都不会完美都是有缺陷的,因此,很多离婚家庭的孩子,既不想和亲生活也不想和母亲生活.据调查,很多犯罪少年都是家庭上存在缺陷的人,以前看过一则新闻：一对中年夫妇本来并没有什么大的矛盾冲突,其婚姻完全可以继续维持,但由于太追求所谓幸福（无非不是经济上的富裕）加上面子思想严重,性子耿介,结果留下一个才上小学三年级的女孩给祖父母带.孩子变得郁郁寡欢,无心向学.更为糟糕的是她的祖父母继其父母离异后也赶了新潮离异了.孩子受到的打击可想而知有多重,结果只读到初中一年级的这个女孩在没有家庭正常的情感的情况下,被社会上的混混引诱而走上了歧途.我想这样的例子是数不胜数的.我想,在为财产的分割打得头破血流的同时,应该更多地关心一下孩子,他们才是婚姻中最大的受害者,这也是做父母的责任和义务.
所以说结婚并不是恋爱,恋爱时只要在一起开心就好,在彼此眼中都是完美无缺的,也不存在那么多的义务和责任.当两个人结婚时,彼此间的秘密,缺点一下子都显现出来,使得美好的印象一下子被打消,于是这种感情便经历磨难.恋人彼此是独立、平等、相互尊重的.可是完婚以后,两人都渴望重新自由,而又彼此牵绊,矛盾便又产生了.谈恋爱的时候情侣们每天都把“我想你”、“我爱你”挂在嘴边.可是结婚之后,情人们觉得再也用不着那么辛苦了,彼此都把注意力转向自己,开始为自己考虑了.
所以,两个人如果选择结婚,就应该意识到结婚不是恋爱,相互间需要更多地理解和安慰,这样才能永远.也就不会给孩子和亲人带来痛苦.
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Have to say that divorce has become many families were facing difficulties.Divorce is very simple,but after the divorce of all kinds of things is not that simple.Many people will be after the divorce and property in order to keep the lawsuit until the date to be their own.For those families with children,the children will be deeply hurt,young children and their parents to leave the soul Jin Buqi against any party,not any side,their growth will not be perfect are defective,so many divorced families Children,we do not want and do not want pro-life and the life of the mother.According to the survey,many juvenile crimes are on the shortcomings of the family,read a previous news:a middle-aged couple and was not much conflict,the marriage can continue to maintain,but because the so-called pursuit of happiness too ( Is not nothing but economic prosperity) plus face serious thinking,patience Gengjie results left only a third grade of elementary school girls with the grandparents.Children become Yuyuguahuan,unmotivated to learn.What's worse is her grandparents after his parents divorced after a rush of the trendy divorced.One can imagine the fight against children have been multiple,read-only to the results of this first-year junior high school girls in the absence of the normal feelings of family circumstances,community and the lure of Hunhun embarked on the wrong track.I think this example is the numerous.I think,for the property division play badly beaten at the same time,it should be more concerned about the children,their marriage is the largest of the victims,this is parental responsibility and obligation.
That is why marriage is not love,love,just as long as happy together,in their eyes are perfect,nor so many obligations and responsibilities.When the two were married,between the secret and weaknesses are apparent all at once,making a better impression of being dispel all of a sudden,it was such a feeling suffering.Love each other is independence,equality,mutual respect.But married later,they are eager to freedom,and mutual Qianban,contradictions Pianyou produced.谈恋爱a day when lovers regard "I think you","I love you" Guazaizuibian.But after marriage,people feel that the situation no longer use so hard,put their attention to himself,began to consider their own.
So,if you choose two people marry,they should be aware that marriage is not love,mutual need for greater understanding and comfort,this can be.Will not bring their children and relatives suffering.