翻译My father was 44 and knew he wasn’t going to make it to 45

翻译My father was 44 and knew he wasn’t going to make it to 45. He wrote me a letter and hoped
My father was 44 and knew he wasn’t going to make it to 45. He wrote me a letter and hoped that something in it would help me for the rest of my life.
Since the day 1 was 12 and first read his letter, some of his words have lived in my heart. Only part always times out. “Right now, you are pretending to be a time-killer. But I know that one hay, you will do something great that will set you among the very best.” Knowing that my dad believed in me gave me permission to believe in myself. “You will do something great.” He didn’t know what that would be, and neither did I, but at times in my life when I’ve felt proud of myself, I remember his words and wish he were here so I could ask. “Is this what you were talking about, Dad? Should I keep going?”
A long way from 12 now, I realize he would have been proud when I made any progress. Lately, though. I’ve come to believe he’d want me to move on to what comes next: to be proud of, and believe in, somebody else. It’s time to start writing my own letters to my children. Our children look to us with the same unanswered question we had. Our kids don’t hold back because they’re afraid to fail. They’re only afraid of failing us. They don’t worry about being disappointed. Their fear－as mine was until my father’s letter－is of being a disappointment.
Give your children permission to succeed. They’re writing for you to believe in them. I always knew way parents loved me. But trust me. That belief will be more complete, that love will be more real , and their belief in themselves will be greater if you write the words on their hearts; “Don’t worry; you’ll do something great.” Not having that blessing from their parents may be the only thing holding them back.
翻译

我的父亲是44知道他并不打算让它45.他给我写了一封信,希望东西会帮助我度过我的余生.
那一天起,1是12和第一次读他的信了,有些话就一直住在我的心里.只有部分总是次.现在,你正在扮演一个time-killer.但我知道一个干草,你会做一些伟大的事,会让你在非常出色.”因为我的爸爸相信我给我许可要相信自己.“你会做一些伟大的事.”他不知道那将会是,我也没买,但是有时在我的生活中当我感到非常自豪,我记得他的言语,感知很长时间才从12点了,我意识到,他会感到很自豪时我做任何进展.最近,虽然.我是来相信他会想要我继续接下来是什麽:为荣,并且相信,人家.它的时候开始写自己的信给我的孩子们.我们的孩子们看着我们具有相同的悬而未决的问题.我们的孩子不要踌躇不前,因为他们害怕失败.他们只是害怕失败的我们.他们不担心别人会很失望.我fear-as直到他们,我父亲