英语翻译We'd like to share some of the positive meanings love ha

英语翻译
We'd like to share some of the positive meanings love has for us.
Love means that I know the person I love.I'm aware of the many sides of the other person — not just the beautiful side but also the limitations,inconsistencies and faults.I have an awareness of the other's feelings and thoughts,and I experience something of the core of that person.I can penetrate social masks and roles and see the other person on a deeper level.
Love means that I care about the welfare of the person I love.To the extent that it is genuine,my caring is not possessive,nor does it hold the other person back.On the contrary,my caring frees both of us.If I care about you,I'm concerned about your growth,and I hope you will become all that you can become.Consequently,I don't put up obstacles to what you do that enhances you as a person,even though it may result in my discomfort at times.
Love means having respect for the dignity of the person I love.If I love you,I can see you as a separate person,with your own values and thoughts and feelings,and I do not insist that you surrender your identity to match an image of what I expect you to be for me.I can allow and encourage you to stand alone and to be who you are,and I avoid treating you as an object or using you primarily to satisfy my own needs.
Love means having a responsibility toward the person I love.If I love you,I respond to most of your major needs as a person.This responsibility does not include my doing for you what you are capable of doing for yourself; nor does it mean that I run your life for you.It does mean acknowledging that what I am and what I do affects you,so that I am directly involved in your happiness and your suffering.A lover does have the capacity to hurt or ignore the loved one,and in this sense we see that love involves an acceptance of some responsibility for the impact my way of being has on you.
Love means making a commitment to the person I love.This commitment does not mean surrendering our total selves to each other; nor does it imply that the relationship is necessarily permanent.It does involve a willingness to stay with each other in times of pain,struggle,and despair,as well as in times of calm and enjoyment.

我们愿意和大家分享一些关于爱的真谛.
爱意味着我了解我爱的人.我很了解他的诸多方面——不仅仅是美好的一面,而且包括不足之处,矛盾和缺点.我了解对方的感情和想法,我经历了一些核心的那个人.我能透过社交场合的表现和角色和看对方更深一层.
爱意味着我关心我爱的人的幸福.只要我的关心是真诚的,我的爱心不是占有,它也不能持有另人回来.相反,我的关心释放我们俩的.如果我关心你,我就会关注你的成长,并希望你会成为你会成为一名出色的老师.因此,我不会把阻碍你的人,即使它会使我感到不自在.
爱意味着尊重我爱的人的尊严.如果我爱你,我就会把你看成是一个独立的人,有你自己的价值观,思想和感情,我不会要你放弃你的特性,配上一件我对你的期待.我能够允许并鼓励你独立自主,保持你的特性,这样我就不会把你当作一件东西或者主要是利用你来满足我自己的需要.
爱,指的是对我所爱的人负责.如果我爱你,我对你的多数重要需求作为一个人.这种责任并不包括我为你做自己力所能及的事,也不意味着我替你管理你的生活.它意味着承认我的为人和我的所为对你的影响,因此我将分享你的快乐和痛苦.的确有能力伤害或忽视他所爱的人,在这个意义上,我们认为爱是承担一定的责任的影响我的生活方式对你.
爱意味着给我所爱之人一个承诺.这种承诺并非意味着我们完全屈从于对方,也不表示我们的这种关系一定是永久的关系.这种承诺意味着不论在痛苦、绝望、以及平静和欢乐的日子.